She is aged about 65.
She lives in a small town in Maharashtra called Miraj.She has been living a healthy life full of family and life around.
She has enjoyed her life like any other middle class Indian family member.
Except, may be she is the shortest distance traveller ever!
Her world is limited to a circle with radius of may be 40 kilometers from her home.
That's the maximum she has travelled across all her life so far!!
And that's because, she walks, only walks!
She has not taken any bus, auto rickshaw, van, car, cycle or any other type of vehicle.
Just walks!
And the main cause is she suffers from "motion sickness". When she was young, as she remembers at around age of 4 or 5, she had trouble travelling on any vehicle. She used to fell sick every time she took any kind of transportation. And eventually, it so happened that she and her family/parents gave up on her taking any transportation.
As she grew up older, she had this fear all the time, and never ever tried any other ways again. She had all her schooling near her house. She kept her friend circle only to the friends who lived within walking distance. Marriages, naming ceremonies, birthdays - all those functions that could not be reached by walk, she skipped them!
Her life has been tagged by this invisible border that she has never been able to cross!
While the world has moved far away for others, she has created her own small world - and I literally mean small!
Well as the wiki says, there are three types of motion sickness.
- Motion sickness caused by motion that is felt but not seen
- Motion sickness caused by motion that is seen but not felt
- Motion sickness caused when both systems detect motion but they do not correspond.
Now I doubt whether the motion sickeness is the real problem here! Motion sickness could be cured over time and with growing age. So my guess is, she and her entire family has been suffering from assumed constraints!
Ken Blanchard, the author of well known series One Minute Manager coined this term assumed constraints. He defines an assumed constraint as
A belief, based on past experience, that limits current and future experiences. An assumed constraint may be holding you hostage of negative internal dialogue, excuses, and blaming statements.
May be somebody could have explained all this to her family.
May be she had come out of her assumed constraints.
Then may be her world would be been much bigger than what it is now!
The funniest thing part of her story is she does not even regret about her situation! She loves her life, just like this elephant does, without knowing that he can actually break the chain and go out free.
What could be better concluding remark than this one...
Freedom is of the mind, not of the body.